This past weekend was the annual Fall Fair where I live. I entered some roses, even though the poor things had taken a beating from wind and rain the previous week. I kept telling myself I was supporting the Fair by entering and not to expect any prizes. Imagine my delight when I found this ribbon attached to one of my entries.
We all thrive on encouragement. At the Fair, a blue ribbon encourages. For writers a contract is the best encouragement of all, but a kind word from an editor, a spike in sales for self-pubbed authors, a nice review — all give a writer a jolt of confidence and the courage to keep working, keep trying, keep getting better. Even for those as yet unpublished, a comment from a fellow writer can make the difference between giving up and trying again.
On my desk I have a pretty jar filled with bits of pretty paper. On those bits of paper I’ve written down kind words I’ve received over the years. I read them when I feel discouraged. Here’s a sample. “I like your writing. I like your descriptions. It feels happy.” That came from a chapter-mate in my local writers group. Since I write romance and HEA is paramount, I’m thrilled that my writing “feels happy.”
“If you come to a path in your life and you look back and wonder whom did you touch, think of [name deleted]. I know that when [she} and I look back and think who touched us, we think of you.” That came from the mother of a child I taught.
As well as exhibiting at the Fair, I volunteer. The woman in charge of volunteers is a master at making us all feel useful and vital to the organization. She sends a thank you card to each one and includes a personal note on the work we did. With over a hundred volunteers, that’s no mean feat.
We could all do with more blue ribbons in our lives. If you have the opportunity to hand one out, why not take it. You just might make a difference in someone’s life.